My husband and I recently adopted our 2nd child through Domestic Private Adoption. While I still have to write our success story, I wanted to share a couple of posts I wrote during the waiting period. Here’s one from day 13 of the 21 day waiting period (which starts 8 days after the baby is born and the birth parents sign consent).
8 days left! 8 days left! 8 days can seem way too short for a vacation yet way too long when you’re waiting for news.
Chris and I are on our rollercoaster ride yet again trying to adopt a 2nd child – maybe this is incentive for me to finally try the Leviathan rollercoaster at Canada’s Wonderland this summer.
I’ll spare the details of this adoption right now until things are more final but I just wanted to share what the waiting period is like for those out there trying to adopt. I’m not going to sugar coat it – it sucks! I wonder if it’s similar to child birth – after time you forget about it and are all ready to do it again. Either we forget how we felt during the waiting period the first time around or this time is much harder.
There are definitely good days and bad days and each day I struggle with how positive to me. I’m generally a very positive person but some days I’m worried about being too positive and getting hurt. On the other hand, if something doesn’t work out I tend to dust myself off pretty quickly and focus on the good in our lives and what the future holds.
Right now everything is day by day for 8 more days. Our family starts our mornings with high fives and my two-year old son doing a dance knowing there’s one day less in the month long waiting period. Some nights if I need a big glass of wine and to watch 5 straight episodes of Nashville on TV, that’s what I do. Anything to get my mind off the waiting.
For any of you currently in the waiting period, not every day is hard. I’ve had way more easier than harder days and up until this Monday with 9 days left of the period it hasn’t been bad.
Good luck and I’ll keep you posted!